Wednesday, September 24, 2008

I Miss Her

September 24, 2008

in Me to You

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Today is my husband’s grandma’s birthday.  Sadly, she isn’t here to celebrate with us as the Lord took her home this past February.  

I think of her often and miss her.  She used to love to bump heads with our kids.  She’d lean forward so their foreheads touched and say, “bump.”  My youngest will do it from time to time with me and every time I think to myself, “Grandma would have loved that!”  When the family’s all together and I’m serving dessert I can almost here her say, “Hey that’s too small a slice!” Certain frilly, pink dresses that the girls wear or bows in their hair remind me of her as I know she’d love them.   And anytime I take the girls out without their socks or shoes on I can hear her scold me as well! 

Every time this song comes on the radio, I think of Grandma and Grandpa and every time I hear it, the tears come to my eyes and start trickling down my face.

They left a rich legacy for their family of a godly marriage and love.  No one could doubt the love they had for each other.   Grandpa is a picture of a gentleman and she was a true lady.  He took care of her every need with love and grace as her health failed her near the end.   Scott sat with them both at the hospital as she died, watching his Grandpa walk his Grandma home after over 60 years of marriage.    Their love is an inspiration for us all. 

How I wish we could serve her some cake and ice cream tonight!

*When I was looking through my hard drive for pictures for our digital frame, I came across the above picture.  It was taken over four years ago at a cookout for my son’s baptism.   I don’t think it ever made it into a scrapbook, so I’m sharing it with all of you for Kristen’s Me to You Carnival.   Unlike many of the pictures I share for this carnival, it definitely belongs in a scrapbook.

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I gotta confess from the start, this is not quite Wordless.

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As I was tidying up the house during nap time this week, I found this in my kitchen.  I bent down to pick them up and decided to snap a quick picture first.  Because some day, my kids will be grown and in school, and I won’t find half dressed baby dolls lying on the floor beside toy guns with my vacuum attachment stuck on top to turn it into a light saber.  And when I sit alone in my clean and quiet house waiting for my teens to buzz in the door between school, and jobs, and sports, I know I am going to think back to these days (you know the ones with toys covering the floor, and Cheerios in the couch cushions)  And I will miss them, immensely.

So this picture is to remind me to cherish these fleeting days and to savor the time by playing baby doll, and ball, and army, all while cooking dinner and tidying up the house.

For less words and more pictures, check out 5 Minutes for Mom for Wordless Wednesday.

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