December 2008

IMG_1284 After dressing the children in their finest, and forcing them to pose for pictures in front of the tree, we went to church this evening for the Christmas Eve services.

When one of our pastors got up to read Scripture, he said he would be reading from John 1.  My son leaned over to me and said, “Mom, I thought the story was in Luke 2.”  This was probably one of my favorite quotes from the evening.

We took our son to the candle light service, while the girls were in the nursery.  This was the first time our son had ever attended a candle light service.

Watching the candle light service through the eyes of a four year old boy was quite amusing.  We had the following whispered  conversations during the church service.

Son: “When are we going to light the candles?”

Me:  At the end.

Son: Do they say abracadabra?

Me:  No, you’ll see

a few minutes later

Son: So will the whole church be lit up on fire?

Me: not exactly….

Thankfully, we made it through Silent Night, without setting the church ablaze.

 

Here are some of my favorite pics from our pre church photo session.

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Isn’t it amazing how something so simple can trigger a memory so deep?  You hear a song from your past and suddenly you can feel all those emotions and feelings you felt so long ago…it’s like it just propels you back in time.

Yea… Faith Hill does that to me.

When Scott and I were dating in college, I spent one memorable Thanksgiving at his family’s home.  That evening we were sitting around the dining room table playing Rummikub when I remembered that the Faith Hill TV special was on that evening, and I commented on that fact.  His mom then turned the TV on in the kitchen so we could listen to it while playing the game.  I saw that her husband Tim McGraw was on stage with her and commented something to the effect of, “Oh, this is the song she sings with her husband Tim McGraw, I love this song.”

I thought they were singing the song, “It’s Your Love.”  (don’t roll your eyes..I know it’s a sappy love song, what can I say, I was young, in love, a complete sap… and about to be humiliated….)

As we sat there playing Rummikub I quickly realized, they weren’t singing the song I thought they were.   I tried to avert my impending humiliation and say something to the effect of, “Oh, ya know we don’t really need to watch this… uh…let’s turn it off and just chat…”  But my future mother in law was so sweet and said something to the effect of, “Oh no, we can watch it, no problem.”

I promise the room was so quiet you could hear a pin drop.  Suddenly no one was talking and all eyes and ears were on the TV to watch the concert that Crystal, Scott’s girlfriend, wanted to watch. 

Yes, let’s listen to this song, that she likes so much. 

Here is where I start turning all sorts of shades of red because they aren’t singing “It’s Your Love”, they are singing their other duet, “LET’S MAKE LOVE” and there I am sitting around the table with my boyfriend, his mom, his dad, and his grandparents listening to the lyrics,

“Let’s make love
All night long
Until our strength is gone
Hold on tight
Just let go
I want to feel you in my soul
Until the sun comes up
Let’s make love”

I am definitely tomato red at this point and am quickly trying to make this very awkward moment just go away…saying something about how they have this other duet they sing which I thought this was, and oops I was wrong… and let’s just turn it off… and his dear sweet grandma who is hard of hearing, says, “Turn it up, I can’t hear it”  ‘What are they saying” and it just kept getting louder and louder….

A few years later when Scott and I were picking songs for our reception, my dad so “kindly” suggested, we dance to that Faith Hill song I loved so much.

Yea…I don’t think so….

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We decided to take a spontaneous trip to DC this Saturday.  And by spontaneous, I really mean spontaneous.  When we left the house we were deciding between a trip to Hersheypark or the local train garden and drive through light display.  Basically, we were looking for a fun evening out enjoying some holiday cheer.  As we were driving, we got the idea of going into DC to see the National Christmas Tree.  And to top it off, we thought we’d take the metro in so the kids could “ride a train underground.”

After our ride in, we grabbed dinner at the food court in the post office pavilion, but unfortunately at 6:00 on a Saturday, it was pretty much closed, so we paid way to much for what was basically microwaved hot dogs (though the kids ate every bite) and walked about 3 blocks to the White House. 

Things were off to a great start… fun ride on the metro, kids favorite food for dinner, walk in the city in freezing cold weather…by the time we got to the tree, the kids were too cold to really care.  Their response was, “Why doesn’t it have candy canes?”  We took several pics of the tree, the white house and the cold kiddos, took a look at the model train display, which they truly loved, and headed back to the metro. 

The walk back to the metro was about twice as long.   You might think I am exaggerating and it just felt that long b/c our dear baby was screaming at the top of her longs the whole way and we were holding her, while pushing the big kids in the double stroller, in the freezing cold. 

But that wasn’t the reason.

Somehow, we got onto the wrong street and we kept walking, and walking and walking before we realized that we hadn’t come this way, and oh wait this isn’t Pennsylvania Ave.   We asked directions from a nice man who steered us to the nearest metro, which we happily boarded.

The ride home was pure bliss.  My youngest sat on my lap playing with my necklace and my hair, while the older two sat with their Daddy and eagerly stared out the window.

As we walked to our van at our metro stop, we asked everyone what their favorite part was.  

The answer?

The Metro Ride

Funny thing is, I couldn’t agree more.  So even though we took 192 pictures of our evening into the Nation’s Capital to see the White House and the National Christmas tree, I leave you with this one picture, which pretty much sums up our favorite part of the evening.

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As we were getting ready to go to the tree lighting ceremony downtown my son asked, “Mom, can I tell Santa that he is not what Christmas is all about?”

I love that as we anticipate Christmas, my kids know that we are preparing to celebrate Jesus’ birth.  Yes, they know we are going to have presents under the tree, and they even sat on Santa’s lap at Scott’s work party, but when I asked my son what he likes best about Christmas, he answered, “celebrating Jesus’ birthday.”  This warms my heart, because the lights, the tree, the songs, the cookies, the presents, the pageants…all of them are meaningless traditions without Christ. 

 

 

But it’s about much more than just the Christ child being born in the stable.  Because without the cross that too would be meaningless.  If you’ll bear with me, I have yet another video clip to share.  I’ll put the lyrics below so you can read them as well.  This song was on the Go Fish Christmas CD I bought for my kids this year and it’s become one of my new favorites.  With 5 days left till Christmas, as we scurry around to finish shopping, cleaning, cards, baking and fitting in all of the traditions, let us not forget to take time to reflect on what it is really all about.

 

 

It’s not just about the manger
Where the baby lay
It’s not all about the angels
Who sang for him that day
It’s not just about the shepherds
Or the bright and shining star
It’s not all about the wisemen
Who travelled from afar
Chorus:
It’s about the cross
It’s about my sin
It’s about how Jesus came to be born once
So that we could be born again
It’s about the stone
That was rolled away
So that you and I could have real life someday
It’s about the cross
It’s about the cross
Verse 2:
It’s not just about the presents
Underneath the tree
It’s not all about the feeling
That the season brings to me
It’s not just about coming home
To be with those you love
It’s not all about the beauty
In the snow I’m dreaming of
Repeat Chorus
Bridge:
The beginning of the story is wonderful and great
But it’s the ending that can save you and that’s why we celebrate
It’s about the cross
It’s about my sin
It’s about how Jesus came to be born once
So that we could be born again
It’s about God’s love
Nailed to a tree
It’s about every drop of blood that flowed from Him when it should have been me
It’s about the stone
That was rolled away
So that you and I could have real life someday
So that you and I could have real life someday
It’s about the cross
It’s about the cross

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When I was little if you wanted to make my mom mad, all you had to do was ask her who was visiting when she was cleaning house.  Oh how I remember the look she’d get on her face when I would say that….seems my turn has come…

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After decorating our cookies yesterday, I realized it was time to deep clean my kitchen.  Once I scrubbed down the icing covered counter, it only made me realize how scummy the other counters looked.  This lead to me doing a deep clean of all my counter tops.  I’m talking take everything off of the counter, move it and wipe down the whole thing.  Yea…that level of cleanliness rarely happens.  Because when it does, it seems like I suddenly become a little OCD. Things that never bothered me before suddenly stick out as I clean one area which then leads to another and before you know it, I’m scrubbing the inside of the door of my dishwasher…

So this morning my OCD cleaning fest was still going strong and I found myself scrubbing the stove top.  My kids were watching with fascination.

And then my son said, “Mom, it’s kinda like people are visiting…like when Aunt Karen and Uncle Jim came…are you going to clean the carpets today too?”

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I’ll just go ahead and admit that I am a big bloggy dork, because since Megan first mentioned her Sharing Christmas carnival, I have been eagerly looking forward to it.  Yes, I even wrote it in on my calendar.  The idea is to share your home at Christmas.. kinda like an Open House… only you get to go in your PJ’s and you don’t have to struggle to find small talk (yea, can’t tell I am an introvert, can you)?

So, welcome to my home…

I feel kinda weird about showing pictures of the front of my house.  So, I’ll just show you our new blow up nativity which sits in front of our house.  We also have our house and door outlined in white lights with icicle lights on the top of the house.

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When you step inside the door, you see “Frosty” by our coat rack.

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This is the table in our entry way. 

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As much as I hate clutter on my entry table, most of the time, though,  it looks like this (just keeping it real)!

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Our living room is the heart of our home. 

When you get to the top of the stairs, the first thing you see is our tree.

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My favorite Christmas decoration is our Bethlehem village.  It sits on top of our entertainment center.  I love how realistic it is.  I feel like Bethlehem could have looked just like this.  There is a lot of activity going on in this village, much like I think Bethlehem was the night our Savior was born. 

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Sitting a little higher than the other buildings in the village, is the stable.  I feel like it sets it apart more this way. 

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Scott has two big “rules” when it comes to displaying a nativity.  He really doesn’t like the baby Jesus to be in the manger until Christmas.  (He wins with the Bethlehem village).  He also wants the three wise men separate from the stable because the wise men didn’t arrive when Jesus was a baby in the stable. 

So, we typically set the wise men on the far corner of the display. 

We have two other nativity sets which we set out on our end tables in our living room.  These are kid friendly.  I want the kids to be able to reenact the story of our Lord’s birth.  I love watching them tell the story over and over as they play with the figures. 

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My father-in-law made the other kid friendly set.  He and Scott made one for their family when Scott was younger and he made one for us our first Christmas.  All the pieces fit together in the nativity, like a puzzle when you put it away. (This is our 8th Christmas and I have yet to figure out how to put it together correctly…I have always stunk at puzzles)!

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My sister in law made me this wreath which I hang on the wall above the Little People nativity.

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Our stockings are hung in our window with care (when you don’t have a fire place, you gotta be creative)!

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The two older kids have a tree in their room.  It was actually the tree I used to have in my room when I was younger.  I had thought about throwing it way because it is looking kinda pathetic, but offered it to the kids first.  They had a blast decorating their tree.  The hung a string of Mardi Gras beads that Scott has brought home from a business trip last year, and they also asked me to string them a strand of popcorn/cranberry garland.  They added various stuffed animal ornaments, an American flag, a few Pooh ornaments which were on my tree when I was a baby, and they each got to pick one ornament from Michael’s this week since they were all 60% off. 

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Don’t miss the pipe cleaner star on top… it’s my favorite.

My youngest actually has a tiny tree in her room as well, that one of my student’s mom had made for me as a gift when I was teaching.  I forgot to take a picture of it before I put her to bed though, and I didn’t want to risk waking her for the picture.

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This flashing Christmas tree was made by Scott in high school.  It was on display at his home, then his dorm, and now our kitchen window.  It makes me smile when I enter the room.  My oldest daughter always asks me to turn it on as soon as she wakes up.  Looking out that same side of our house, you can see our reindeer friends grazing out on our back deck. The kids love watching them out our sliding glass window.

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My mom made this decoration many years ago and they used to hang in my home as a child.  A few years ago she mentioned that she was getting rid of them and I strongly objected.  She thought they were looking ratty looking, but I was attached to them and asked if I could have them instead.  Makes me wonder what decoration my kids will latch on to.  They hang on the bare wall above our dining room table.

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Our advent calendar hangs on the wall in our dining room.  It used to have little gold foil numbers on each pocket, but one by one they started falling off.  I’ve been working for two years at trying to find a replacement for them.  Each night we read from Luke 2.  On December 1, we read Luke 2:1… today we will read Luke 2:1-18… once we finish the portion of Luke 2 that tells of Christ’s birth, we add the portion of Matthew 2 that gives the account of the Magi.  The kids take turns putting a character up in the scene each day.  It works out best when we have fallen behind and there is more than one character that needs to be put up. 

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So, that’s what the circus looks like at Christmas…after the kids are in bed and I have had time to clean house. 

Grab a cookie and some hot cocoa, and stop by Megan’s carnival today and have a visit inside others homes at Christmas.  You can feel free to link up your own blog, if you want to share your Christmas with us.  We’d love to see it!

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