Since yesterday was our anniversary, the kids asked if they could see my wedding dress. After my mom made my dress 8 years ago, I remember us discussing whether I should get it preserved or not. Her advice was not to so that I could get it out to look at and enjoy over the years. I am glad I took her advice.
There was something very special about pulling my dress out of the back of the closet and showing it to my children.
They thought it looked like a princess dress and begged me to put it on.
At first I protested b/c I knew I wouldn’t fit in it like I did 8 years ago. They rebutted that the dress looked really big (the train was completely baffling to them… why is mommy’s dress so long?). I decided I could put it on even if it didn’t zip up all the way.
They wanted me to twirl and my oldest daughter instantly wanted to put on her princess dress and wear my crown and veil.
Then the two of us eagerly waited to surprise Daddy when he got home from work.
My son greeted him at the door and said, “Dad, you’ve got to see mom, she is SO beautiful!”
Dad came home with a dozen roses and we talked about the beautiful flowers Mommy carried 8 years ago.
Weddings are special. The kids are grasping that already. And while marriage is about a whole lot more than flowers and pretty dresses, they still hold a special place in marriage as well. Sometimes you gotta mix in a little of the wonder and excitement in the midst of the cooking, cleaning, and everyday living.
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